Yoni is the Sanskrit word for the vagina. Sexual organs play a major role in our physical, emotional and spiritual health and when our sexual organs are subject to blockages due to toxins we reduce our capacity to create and move our sexual energy (Chi, Prana, Life force) throughout our body which is required for our self-healing mechanism.
Many different types of blockage can occur in different parts of the body including sexual organs as discussed below.
Kinds of blockages we have are due to:
Sedimentations caused by toxins settling not only in capillaries in vital organs but just under the skin, and it can be felt like sand like deposits. With gentle massage with one figure? circular movements, you can dissolve the toxins and open the channels to increase circulation in the yoni.
Sedimentation is due to formation of plaque, a crystal like sedimentation and fatty acids in our circulation. These sediments were known for 1000’s of years in ancient Chinese texts as “Karsai”. These blockages are caused due to:
These blockages are mainly due to emotional and physical toxins that block our circulatory system in sexual organs. By reducing the blood and lymph floor into our sexual organs, it also reduces energy flow for optimal function of sexual organs.
In order to have healthy functioning genitals, we need to have a rich blood supply both in and out of the sexual organs to both provide nourishment and to remove toxins. Poor blood supply to genital area, women will find difficulty producing adequate sexual fluids and getting the proper engorgement of inner and outer lips (inner and outer labia) and the clitoris (while men will have difficulty in getting and maintaining a good erection)
Knots are usually surface blockages that can appear as thickened or lumpy areas, sometimes these knots can be felt like small plums. Knots are formed by entangling following small structural tissues due to stress from emotions such as anger, fear, shame, frustration etc. or due to illness, resulting in muscle contraction causing muscular tension, aches and body armouring shutting down the yoni.
These knots in the yoni can also pull other areas of the body causing muscle contractions and pain in lower back, thighs and even in shoulders, neck and head. Using special massage techniques you can loosen and relax the tension in the yoni knots torelease aches in other parts of the body.
Tangles occur at a deeper level than the knots and involves entangling and twisting following larger structures, to cause deeper blockages which requires yoni massage with deeper pressure and depth to dissolve and untangle, whereas knots need gentle pressure to dissolve.
Tangles may also consist of following bigger structures such as
Each of these blockages have stagnant negative emotions trapped in them and during a specialised yoni massage these emotions get evoked and get dispersed thorough a special breathing technique incorporating sounds.
Female Ejaculation and Orgasms
During a yoni massage you will also experience female ejaculation called Amrita in Sanskrit which facilitate further release of negative emotions clearing the pelvic basin and making sexual organs open and positive creating space for positive sexual energy to grow. You will also experience body shaking, shivering and spasms called Kundalini Awakening to disperse stuck negative energies throughout the body making way to full body orgasmic waves which could last for 20 min – 60 minutes or longer.
When you were born, Yoni was originally made of positive, pleasurable cells. Due to various traumas, belief systems, accidents, medical examinations and surgery that you were subject to emotions have stored around our sexual organs disconnecting you from one of the most important organs in the body making them painful and numb losing pleasure and orgasms.
Benefits of the yoni massage
Many women have suffered sexual abuse in their childhood which they can’t even remember due to dissociation during a frozen state at the time of the abuse. These traumas are the ones that create the deepest blocks reducing the orgasmic capacity. Yoni massage helps to release these traumas and emotions to make you free.
Initial Yoni massage will be the most traumatic due to the vulnerability, but the subsequent sessions get much easier as you being to peel off layers of negative emotions in the Yoni and beginning to feel deep pleasure and full body multi orgasms that you never experienced before. What most women experience is the clitoral orgasms which is very limited in terms of pleasure comparatively to G spot and A spot orgasms which runs through your body with limitless waves of orgasms that you would feel in your head transforming all negative energies in the pathway into positivity. Female ejaculations will be measured in cupful’s, soaking the towels feeling ecstasy beyond imagination.
Pleasure aspects of the yoni massage is only a tiny part of the transformation. I have seen women blossom as a powerful, creative woman developing their career, with good health and happiness with improved relationships and being able to find their ideal partner and getting rid of most of the sexual dysfunctions and disorders and many illnesses they suffered for many years. Above all you will feel younger after each session due to rejuvenating every cell in your body
Yoni massage is not a quick fix. It’s a slow journey with lots of patience and commitment.
Intention as a Receiver of a Yoni massage
Suggestions for the Receiver prior to a Yoni massage
Suggestions for the Receiver during the Yoni massage
During the session you will go into an altered state of consciousness, atrance like state with closing your eyes 50% of the time. This is the stage you will get in touch with your past trauma. At this stage you will prefer to hold on to your emotions in fear of letting go, by stopping breathing or with a shallow breathing with your eyes closed making your body rigid. At this stage the therapist will invite you to open your eyes and look into his eyes, he will also encourage you to make sounds and move your body. By keeping your eyes open 50% of the time, you will be able to release the trauma and the emotions that you got in touch with while your eyes were closed.
Tips for the Receiver
Finally take a look at the barriers and the limits you put up around how much pleasure you allow yourself to feel. Then just drop those barriers. If you experience an orgasm consider it’s just a gateway to many orgasms and extended orgasms where each wave will become higher and longer. It will only grow more and more,with session after session giving you so much joy and happiness.
Tips about the Yoni Massage Process
A professional giver will not take any of the above blames personally and will accept all, being in the moment holding the space for you to unload all past trauma and emotions with unconditional love and asking you to share more, inviting more release of stuck trauma. During a deep process he will stop the yoni massage and will be in stillness. Once the process is over he will continue till the next wave of emotions come through. During the process he will speak with such gentleness and love, to this child like adult in a way she can hear, understand and make this hurtful child safe and empowered.
Some Tips about Hysterics during the Yoni Massage
If this lasts for more than 10 minutes, it’s the time to end the session. To end the above reactions you will be asked to “Take a deep breath and hold that breath”. It will likely take you several breaths of trying to hold the breath before you are able to do it. As soon as you are able to hold the breath for a few seconds, you will come out of the hysterics and back to more balance emotionally. After you are able to hold the breath for a few seconds you will be asked to repeat the same to hold the breath longer until you fully recover from Hysterics before you integrate and end the healing session until next time
Things to Remember
Accept the way you feel during and after a Yoni massage as a way of letting go of those stagnant negative emotions and trauma, rather than keeping them in your body which does more harm than good in every aspect in your life. What you feel during and after the session is all about triggering your past and very little to do with during the session. The walls you hit are very important as it gives an opportunity to walk through them during subsequent sessions, without running away from them which you have done all your life. Work as a team with the giver, be present and look into his eyes at least 50% of the time to stay connected to make the process a success. It’s important to come to the session with no expectations, knowing that you don’t have to remove all your life long blocks and emotions in one session. Communicate your needs and feelings to the giver in a non-blaming way and work as a team and let him be the catalyst for your healing process. Be patient and enjoy the Tantric Journey.
History of Yoni Massage
Yoni massage was a spiritual treatment practised for 1000’s of years in both India and in China for the purpose of healing and empowering women. These practices were done in Tantra Temples and the Icon of Yoni – Lingam is shown below. Yoni massage was a unique ancient sacred healing modality to release trauma and emotions. Treatments have been performed by the High priest or Daka, who is the male healer
Icon of Yoni – Lingam Tantra Temple
In ancient times Yoni massage was performed in the West to treat Hysteria. Hysteria means “that what proceeds from the uterus” in Greek.
Female Hysteria was a supposedly found disease in women and later removed from the medical records in 1952 by the American Psychiatric Association as it removed all hysteroneuresthetic disorder from the its lists of diseases.
“In the 4th Century B. C Plato claimed that the woman’s uterus wandered around her body strangulating other organs and causing shortness of breath. Five hundred years later the physician Galen would define this as ‘Hysteria’”.
“A uterus disease caused by sexual deprivation to which passionate woman are particularly susceptible. A prolonged abstinence from sexual stimulation it was noted, could produce anxiety, loss of appetite, insomnia, fainting spells, erotic fantasies, increased vaginal lubrication, swelling in the pelvic area, a tendency to call trouble for others, marriage was an often prescribed remedy, in more severe cases, removal of the ovaries was sometimes performed.
“However manual stimulations by a trained physician producing healing paroxysms was deemed to be a temporary cure. By the mid-19th century as the women flocked for this most popular treatment, Hysteria became the frequently diagnosed disease in the Western medical practice’. This was the time when the vibrators was born as yoni massage was too time consuming for the western physicians due to its demand. It is my opinion vibrators desensitise the yoni while a yoni massage could sensitise the yoni.