THE ART OF LINGAM MASSAGE
An authentic Tantric Lingam Massage is a great gift of healing and orgasm is NOT the objective or focus of this deeply healing and beneficial practice. Instead a true lingham massage helps a man to experience sensual pleasure without orgasm in addition to having some wonderfully healing benefits.
It is not only the shaft of the lingam that is massaged but the perineum, testicles and prostate. The lingam massage takes away the need for the man to sexually perform, instead it allows him to receive pleasure without expectation. The receiver must be able to relax and the massage begins with the man lying on his back with his head propped up sufficiently to be able to look at his partner. His hips should be propped up, his legs spread and knees partially bent. Prior to the lingam massage, eye gazing and tantric breath-work will ensure that the ritual has the right level of relaxation and connection.
Oil is then applied to the lingam and testicles and the massage begins at the testicles. This must be done carefully as it is a delicate and sensitive area. Particular attention should be paid to the perineum and this should be massaged for long enough for the man to relax (the perineum is located between the anus and testicles). The massage should then move to the scrotum, the area of the pubic bone and continue upwards. Then gentle yet firm pressure should be applied to the base of the lingam, working lowly upwards. A good technique is to use alternate hands, pulling upwards and releasing, rhythmically and then reversing the process beginning at the head of the lingam and working downwards.
It is important to take notice of your partner’s reaction to pressure and strokes and adapt the massage to suit. The lingam might become erect or flaccid during the lingam massage, but this is no reflection upon the standard of the massage.
Once the massage is complete the receiver must rest for a while and be allowed to be calm. These are the basic techniques to learn full techniques for healing you will need tantric instruction and you can find details of Tantra Training on the website.